I tend to think of those around me, inside and outside of my life. At times the things I see and hear make me want to scream to the high heavens at the top of my lungs. Let me say this:
The world does not revolve around you.
The world does not owe you anything.
You are an adult and it is time for you to take care of yourself and not have your family/and or society carry the weigth that you have created and to pay for the mistakes that you have made.
There are times in life that are inconvienent and difficult for all us, suck it up.
Do not, bald face lie about your finacial and or behavioral status and then do the oppisite..i.e. say you are broke and then go out and spend hundreds of dollars on something you thought was fun.
I am tired of hearing and seeing it on a day to day basis. I bust my ass for what little I have. And yes I would love to fall into a pile of money and be able to do what I want, however that is as likely to happen as me finding a real unicorn.
So step up to reality and do whatever it is that you need to do to survive in this world, get a job or another job. Be tired for a year to pay of your bills and get on your feet, I am not going to carry you any longer and I hope others will do the same.